issues lesbian has to deal with

because i am very annoyed by this question.
you know when you just build the courage and bare your soul to tell someone that you are gay.
specifically girl friend that you are hoping they don't hate you. and guess what out of all the possible question in the world and they decided to pick the most common and number one rated annoying question "so do you have feeling for me?" or "what do you feel when you look at me?".
me be like.........................all you can say is just that? you're not gonna ask how am i doing? am i okay? and my answer to that is bitch no. i see you as a friend women! puhlisss. don't get yourself ahead. you are not everyone's type.

straight people that have friends coming out to you please don't ask the question above. it's just a big NO. you can ask some of the questions below
1. you're okay?
2. are you breathing? >>>>because coming out took a lot of effort. anxiety is the worst and believe me they are definitely holding their breath.
3. so i guess i am your dearest friend? >>>>> because you might be that person she trust and believe that you have her back.
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so yeah.